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Teen Rebel
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You're off course, tagged a rebel & feel cornered. Will anything ever be the same?
Teens are notorious for being tagged, "Rebels". Why? Because there is an inner struggle to succeed, to be different, to identify one's self so that they stand above the crowd.
A rebel teen may drive fast for attention, or go overboard with body piercings, or make their hair give new meaning to 'The Color Purple'.
Does this mean that rebel teens are bad? No way! Does this mean that they're out to hurt someone, as in their parents? No way! Does this mean that rebel teens are not in danger? Yes way!
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What? Yes way?
Yes Way.
Why?
It's not the overtures that get a rebel teen in trouble; it's the potential dangers that exist. Think about this. How many times have you heard an older person say, "I am surprised that I didn't kill myself or someone else in my wild and younger days."
This is one reason why it's tough for all teens; a lot of older people didn't play it safe in their younger days and normally assume that all teens are like they were - as wild as hens laying green eggs at Easter. It is an unfair assumption to place on all teens but sadly, one bad apple truly will spoil the entire bunch.
So what can a teen do to gain confidence from their parents, guardians and teachers?
One must show the ability to be a responsible person. And just what does this mean? Here are just a few examples that might help:
- During times of anger, retain control of emotions. Don't scream, yell or have a tantrum, and above all, never throw anything that might break mom's beloved vase. A person who controls their emotions during times of anger is always admired and sometimes envied. It's a very hard thing to do. State your point, keep calm, and try not to let the point in hand control your emotions. Remember, YOU control your emotions; don't let THEM control you.
- Volunteer at school, church or at home. This shows that you are able to take control of a situation and follow through. Always aim to do the best job you can do!
-One fear of most parents is losing their child. I can speak firsthand about this, because Tom and I lost our only daughter three years ago. So, my advice would be to gain your parent's or guardian's confidence slowly. Begin by asking friends over to your house; always clean up any mess left behind; have fun but never let things get out of hand. From there, confidence will build. I know that it's miserable when you feel like you're on a leash, but be patient. You are very loved, and sometimes parents can be very over-protective.
-And never stop enhancing your talents! Not even when you're 80 years old!
